End of 1998 I was diagnosed with Fibromyalgia and Chronic Fatigue Syndrome, which I knew nothing about , but after research on the net I then knew what I had been suffering all ny life. The light bulb went off. I learnt stress made symptoms worse and I was so stressed at my son having nothing to do with me and trying in all ways to communicate with him to get the phone slammed on me or door as well. As the crow flys he is only 5 minutes away from me. This has gone on from 1997 until after 10 years and just had to let go. My prayer is my son comes to his senses before I die. I can do no more.
So realizing I could not do anything about my son, I could about my horrible marriage. Larry had a secret I knew nothing about until we married. When he moved into my place his wardrobe suddenly became full of womens vynl clothes and he was for ever buying me long shinning boots and clothes and making me wear them. I soon got sick of all of this. Then out come the pornographic videos of sexual acts in vynl clothes. I kept asking him to stop to get rid if it all, but he refused. My Dr was encouraging me to get rid of him as it was causing my health to worsen. He just would not go.
One evening very late I woke up and found him drunk laying on the lounge with his pants down for all to see and the pornographic video going. A whole cask of wine had been drunk.This did it I told him he had to get out but he still wouldnt go.
So I decided to take his 4 boxes of pornographic videos and bags of his vynl clothes and gave them to my neighbour to keep. I then told Larry I had got rid of them but he could have them back once he left. Well the next weekend he arrived with his daughters and their horse floats to take his share of furniture. Once the girls left he demanded his boxes of x rated stuff. First I told him they had been burnt, well he was so upset it was unreal. So I went next door and he got his precious stuff. It just showed how important they were to him. He had a real fetish and probably still has.
But at last I was free of him and would just have to go through property settlement and all that goes with it., including divorce yet again.
That was around early 1998. We had bought the house I was renting with the money I got from my brothers estate and I had not wanted to do that. But like all abuse he bullied me into doing that.
So I was able to get Domestic Violence house in Elizabeth and moved there for around 9 months while the house sold. He got his block of land and the BMW car and I ended up with no car and $5000 that was it. I was once again poor.At least the divorce went smoothly. It was while I was in Elizabeth I lost my 2 pekingeses Nakita and Scarlett, and remained with Henry and got 2 kittens, Tara and Jasper..
In early 2000 I was offered a Community Housing House with Unity housing back in Gawler, so I took it knowing it would be a permanent place to live the rest of my life.
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